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第一封信：写给自爱。
亲爱的你：曾经的你经历过这样那样的苦，慢慢地也该明白了，自己也老了，身体不比当年，该学会好好地爱自己，保养自己。
偶尔给自己放个假，出去走走，别让自己太累了。
人生如花，只有爱自己的人才能酿出甜蜜的生活。
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第二封信：写给珍惜。
亲爱的你：有没有发现，年龄越大，离开的亲人就越多。
生命无常，明天和意外不知道哪个先来。
我们唯有珍惜生命，努力地活着，善待家人、亲戚和朋友。
人生本就是一段孤独的旅程，所有的相遇都不是必然，如果有幸结伴同行一段，那是需要珍惜的幸运。
Education rejuvenates the country, or science and technology rejuvenates the country, or education rejuvenates the country, or education rejuvenates the country with talented people and so on, but all cannot do without education. Obviously, how important education is in a country's construction and rejuvenation is absolutely a universal truth.
However, what is China's education like? I am not an expert or scholar. Of course, the purpose of this article is not to discuss the whole picture of education. I just want to make a small comparison between Chinese and western education and look for the clue of rejuvenating the country.
There are many characteristics and differences between Chinese and western education, of course, there are also some similarities or differences, because education, after all, starts with children and must have some commonalities. However, the differences between Chinese and western education are still major. Perhaps the most striking one is:
China's education attaches importance to rationality and even propriety, while western education attaches importance to individuality and even to nature, so the gap arises. I describe it as " goat sex education" for Chinese education, and " wolf sex education" for western education ( wolf sex culture seems to be very fashionable in enterprise construction in recent years ). Although this analogy is not appropriate and I do not appreciate it, let's use it as a vivid bridge to understand the problem. Because of the characteristics of sheep and wolf, the relationship between sheep and wolf is too simple and clear, so there is no need to say more. Just think about the story of Wolf and Lamb, which has been deeply rooted in people's hearts since childhood.
Why is it said that Chinese education is like " sheep's nature" because the Chinese people have been deeply educated, nurtured and influenced by traditional Confucian culture since childhood. They speak of benevolence, righteousness, propriety, wisdom and faith, cultivate one's morality and nurture one's nature, and even go along with it. It is impossible to talk about how to win the hearts of the people or even how to rule the people without human nature education or resistance education. Therefore, no matter how many people there are, most of them have become good citizens, obedient citizens and even slaves. Looking at the classic works inherited from China, one can see at a glance: Tao Te Ching, Analects of Confucius, Book of Changes, University, Doctrine of the Mean, Zeng Guofan's Family Letters and so on, all of which are basically poems, books, rites and music, and dealing with people. One can see this by thinking about the worship of " rare stupidity" which is regarded as a motto by many people in China. Although many scholars and even high-ranking officials and elites regard it as if it were a fool, there are few people who can really be a fool. I'm afraid most of them have really wasted their lives in a muddle. ( Article Reading Network: www.sanwen.net )
However, western education seems to be " wolf - like" because it emphasizes more on individuality, subjectivity, resistance consciousness, master consciousness, autonomy and even aggressiveness, which is completely opposite to China. Therefore, western countries have a rich history of aggression, while eastern countries such as China have more history of aggression. Looking at the classics of western classics, one can see at a glance: utopia, the spirit of law, the origin of species, the theory of human nature, even including the theory of war, my struggle, and so on. of course, there are also the bible, capital, the communist manifesto, and so on, which are quite different from Chinese culture.
People who grew up under this kind of " goat sex" education did not see much difference during the civil war. Even sheep became wolves. However, once there is a war with western countries, it will be clear that the problem arises: sheep or sheep, wolf or wolf. How can sheep beat wolves? Even if there are more sheep, they are also the food of wolves. Why are they called lambs to be slaughtered? They are the products of Chinese education. However, sheep will not be sheep forever, or sheep eaten by wolves will not be sheep again after they are regenerated.
Having experienced too many war lessons instead of book education, the Chinese have awakened and can neither be wolves nor sheep. If the Chinese want to be dragons, they can be said to be " gods" that no animal can defeat. It is neither as ferocious as a wolf nor as submissive as a sheep. It is free to fly into the sea and is superior to the others. Flying apsaras can soar and swim into the sea, becoming the only " oriental dragon" in the world. Think about it, what would happen if i原由网t were 1.4 billion sheep and what would happen if it were 14 dragons?
However, the strange phenomenon is that education in China is " goat - like", but it is only aimed at children, and educators are often " wolf - like", including children's parents and teachers. are there not some successful education cases of " tiger parents"? However, western education is " wolf - like" and also aimed at children. instead, educators are often " sheep - like", or flexible and equal. even when children are treated, they are treated like adults with equal democracy and respect for human nature and nature.
In fact, Chinese education is far from simple " goat sex" education. Starting from " sage Confucius", for more than 2,000 years, Chinese education can be said to be rich and profound, absolutely no worse than western education, and even much higher. All western education concepts are not uncommon in the education system of our ancestors. Otherwise, how can so many " magnificent" national heroes be cultivated, and how can so many " better - than - strolling" outstanding Chinese children be born? It is because our descendants cannot thoroughly study the education methods and ideological essence of our ancestors, and the methods are improper. It can even be said that our education is the result of a serious mistake of " imitating others from the east". We want to learn from the west but have not learned the essence. On the contrary, we have lost our own excellent things. Neither fish nor fowl is often hysterical. We have turned good children into " four different images" of China, the west and the east. This is the biggest failure and the biggest sorrow. Fortunately, many people of insight have gradually come to their senses and are returning to the right path bit by bit.
In fact, both Chinese - style education and western-style education have both advantages and disadvantages, with both advantages and disadvantages. The wisest educator should learn from each other's strong points to make up for deficiencies and eliminate disadvantages. Such education is a great blessing for children and a great blessing for the future.
This raises a serious question: what is the most important thing in national education and what is the most important thing in master consciousness education, that is, to be a good master instead of waiting to be a slave. Then there is history education ( another article ). If you don't know and remember the history of the motherland, the tragedy will be repeated again and again. Culture, knowledge, science, technology and so on are all important, but no matter what, it is most important to have no sense of ownership, because if one loses the sense of ownership, the country will lose the country and the people will lose the people, which will be the object of insult and damage. Master consciousness is not only manifested in the national economy and people's原由网 livelihood, but also on the international stage.
Someone once said that China is a lion waking up in the east. I want to say that China is a soaring oriental dragon, flying into the sea and free. History is wealth, please don't regard 5000 years as 70 years old. China is the only country in the world that can and should be able to combine greatness and strength.
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That year, I was sitting behind your bicycle with the wind blowing in my ear, detailing your promise to me. I smiled and slept on your shoulder.
In early summer, your smile is like tearing sunshine, dazzling and dazzling. In your angelic face, I lost my sight. The gardenia behind me melted your pure white shirt into that piece of Xue Hai. You took off a gardenia and handed it to me. I dare not stretch out my hand to pick it up. You smiled and said, nice to meet you. From now on, I will protect you.
Your words and the fragrance of gardenia spread around. I looked up and saw your eyes, bright and warm. At that moment, I felt the fall.
From then on, we were inseparable. When it was busy, I watched you laugh and laugh in the crowd and sweat profusely on the court. When it is quiet, you can use a single car to cross the sea of flowers or sit under a tree full of green shade and listen to the flowers.
You know what? When you rescued me from that group of people who were carried away by jealousy; When you walked the long mountain road behind my back; When you fetch water for me and give me gifts; When you let me sit behind your bicycle, which will never carry people. These are great happiness that I still cannot believe.
One day, I asked you why you knew me at the beginning. You said that when I first saw you, I wanted to protect you. I raised my mouth and smiled proudly.
When gardenias bloom again, you sing under the tree with gentle and sad voice. For the first time in your eyes, I saw something other than happiness. I know, your song is for a girl, that's not me.
Gardenias were unbridled and defeated behind me. You didn't see the dim look in my eyes.
The seasons are dry and the flowers bloom in spring.
You are still singing affectionate songs, and I am still the wrong listener.
We jointly deduce a story that is not a story.
When the last gardenia withered that year, you suddenly asked me what you would do if I left. I said, I will wait for you to come back.
You smiled, the smile was full of heavy mist.
You put your hand on my head and said, girl, you don't have to wait.
I saw the determination in your eyes.
I know, everything has been irreparable.
Soon after, you left. With your sadness, I went to the place in my dream, the world I will never reach.
At the airport, your white shirt still looks good. The black backpack is hung on your shoulder, black and white. With some kind of persistence, I will not die without regret.
You smiled again, a //www.58yuanyou.comsunny smileoAWRG. Eyes, too deep to see bottom.
But I can clearly see that there is a reflection of my face, desolate and beautiful.
You said to me with pity and worry, girl, you know, don't wait for me. I shook my head desperately, tears trickling down.
You wiped my tears and said, girl, be happy, be happy. This is my last blessing to you, be obedient!
Say that finish, you also don't back to go. I heard the sound of my heart being torn apart. The great pain could not be relieved. I cried for a long time and shed tears from now on.
You just disappeared from my world, you made all my beautiful dreams break like glass. I am crazy about your news, but no one knows where you went.
You came to me in summer and left in summer. Just like the wind, it passed and disappeared.
But I can't go back to the origin.
I don't remember how many times gardenias opened after you left. I don't know which one you picked for me. I can't do what you say. Without you, how can I be happy? This sea of flowers is still as beautiful as it was at the beginning, only without your smile.
And the girl waiting for her lover to return under the tree.
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第三封信：写给坚强。
亲爱的你：时光匆匆，岁月不饶人，不知不觉已到了中老年。
回头看看，世间沧桑，人情冷暖。现实告诉我们，靠谁都不如靠自己。
太依赖别人，只有输的份；靠自己，才更有可能赢。
生活的苦，自己尝；
自己的眼泪，自己擦；
自己的痛苦，自己扛；
委屈的时候，自己安慰自己。
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第四封信：写给心态。
亲爱的你：镜子脏的时候，你不会误以为是自己的脸脏了；别人随口一说的不中听的话，为什么要觉得是自己的不是呢？
要知道你又不是人民币，怎么可能让人人都喜欢你呢？
红尘声音吵杂，很多喧嚣，本来就与你毫无瓜葛。
过好自己的生活，随别人怎么说。
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第五封信：写给健康。
亲爱的你：你已不再年轻，肩上的担子比谁都重。
上有老，下有小，如果你有什么事，谁来替你分担？
无论多忙，都请照顾好自己的身体。
身体好，才能更好地照顾家人，才能享受快乐的生活，才能更好地去做自己想做的事。
钱是挣不完的，多就多花点，少就少花点。
活着，才是最重要的。
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第六封信：写给自信。
亲爱的你：不要因为年纪大，身体衰老，就否定自己。
要相信自己，就算在家带孙子，做家务，也是对家庭的一种付出。
别太自卑，也别太逞强。你不再是曾经的少年，要注意保养。
天气变了，不忘添衣；困了，就早点去休息；累了，就多放松放松。
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第七封信：写给糊涂。
亲爱的你：人活在世，不需要急也不要太硬。
学会柔软，学会不动声色。在安静中，才能显示人品的高贵，享受世界的美好。
有的时候你觉得自己看透了一切，但是你要知道，你永远也猜透不了人心。
社会残酷，世事繁杂，总有你想象不到的事物存在。
学会谦虚，活到老学到老。人这一辈子，看不完，想不完，唯有淡然。
谦虚是美德，装糊涂是智慧。
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第八封信：写给放下。
亲爱的你：人之所以烦恼太多，就是执着的太多，想要的太多。
欲望只会摧毁你本来平稳的步伐，让你失去最初的自己。
很多东西失去了就失去了，只要曾经拥有过就好了。
走累了就停下来歇歇，走不下去了也别硬撑，钱没了还可以再赚，只要人活着就有机会。
放下就是自在，后退一步海阔天空。
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第九封信：写给看开。
亲爱的你：人生在世，什么也买不来健康和快乐。
看淡一切，看开一切。
淡到极致就是绝美，看开了就是新的世界。
不忘清扫内心的尘埃，生活就是只遵从内心的想法，快乐一天是一天。
人最终的归宿还是自己，孰轻孰重，冷暖自知。
眼内有尘三界窄，心头无事一床宽。
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第十封信：写给生活。
亲爱的你：人生本就是自己和自己的修炼，你终究会和最好的自己相遇，也会获得最好的温暖和幸福。
惜福的人才能获得快乐，心中有爱的人才会被爱，每一个善良的人都会被世界温柔以待。
认真生活，静悄悄绽放。
时光若水，无言即大美。日子如莲，平凡即至雅。
我们纠结了大半辈子，烦闷了大半辈子，辛苦了大半辈子，却一直腾不出时间来爱自己，空不出双手来拥抱自己。
以后的日子不多了，时间对于我们来说太珍贵了。
所以呀，你要好好善待自己，善待身边的朋友和亲人，开开心心过好你的余生。
